Something I remind myself that helps me keep going......
If W does not end the affairs on her own, without any influence on my part, I will not be able to rebuild my trust in her and the greater likelihood of this happening again.
Right now my wife is in deep...........
Last night she received a call back about a apartment. I know she needs to do this, but you look at all the wasted $$$ and you just want to flap your arms like a bird and scream "WAKE UP"!
Then I remember that taking that action only punts the ball further down the road.
She will be out of the house the next three nights thank god. No more having to find ways to make sure I cant listen to her on the phone. Best of all - THREE DAYS OF DADDY AND D HANGING OUT
Before she left this morning she asks "Does this shirt go with these pants" Do I look OK? (as she is wearing ANOTHER new shirt)
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
