Hi sandi,

The MC is over. That was a bad idea to begin with. She *really* made things worse. I thought we were going there to consider reconcilliation, she wanted MC to convince me to give up the chase and stop trying to save the M. I agree with half of that wink

Deep down my W is jealous and possessive, and that has raised its green-eyed head several times over the past couple of months. I refuse to tell her where I've been. I've got my phone with me and can be reached 24/7. W can see who she wants, when she wants, but as I've made clear in my new posts, for my own protection and the protection of my children, she must respect my boundary that she not be out with OM when she is supposed to be at home with the kids (based on the schedule that we both agreed to). Otherwise, there's the consequence.


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13