Opps, sorry. I posted on your old thread. Here's the copy.
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Why are you seeing a MC if she's going to get a D? She has to be on board and willing to do the hard work that comes in reconciliation. Otherwise, all the MC will do is validate her feelings. "If it makes you happy and it feels good, do it". That sort of thing.
FWIW, I don't agree about telling your WAW (who is having an A) every move you make and with who. What sense does that make? She's possessive! Talk about having her cake and eating it too!! The point is for her to experience what she will be losing now......not after it's too late.
Hope you have a good trip.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
