Seriously Stander...you want a woman who just found out she is pregnant, to validate her H's craziness regarding the pregnancy? THAT is just nuts.

Do you have a clue how horrible it feels for a pregnant woman to hear that her baby isn't wanted by its other parent? I doubt it.

Maybe you need to learn what compassion is and figure out how to express that. Validation, only goes so far, and I will say again, what you suggest, sounds so phony to me...

In it,

You are doing wonderfully dealing with this right now.

Yes parts of the conversation could have been different...

You will learn that over time.

For now, let him spin...



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox