DBing European Style, part 2

[Papa4Life]

Hi all, the plan now (apparently) is to tell the children about the D at the end of May (after S10's bday). I asked her whether, considering that it might take some time to find another place, it might be better to wait until we know something definite before pulling the rug out from under the kids' feet. W said to me "Better for them or better for you?" I didn't respond, just out of the disgust that I felt for such a heartless response. As I've written, I'm a child of D and I've seen it all around and from up close. I LOATHE D and I salute everyone here who is making the effort to get things on track. So that comment was a major turnoff for me and ironically it has helped me in becoming detached. I love my W, but not this alien who sleeps in the adjacent BR.