One related note, I have a tendancy to look for a negative. I need to let that go. I know part of the reason yesterday seemed too good of a session to be true was that I am carrying around all this anxiety over her trip this weekend to XYZ town, and it is clouding my thoughts. I need to look at the positives and welcome them. When she left for work, she said good-bye and did an ILY without it being an answer back to mine. Contrast that to what it had been (leaving without even saying anything) and it is real progress.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
