Just a thought here cbtdad... You seem to be hinging a lot on if W goes to MC on 5/7. What if you, when she got back just waited to see what happens on its own. What if you were poised and cool, just doing your own thing and let your W come to you with any talks. What if you were to not bring up OM or R talks. What if you didn't go to MC, yet.
I ask these questions, as to me it feel s like the MC at this point, with your mindset may be an ultimatum and idk, but I don't trust MC to be pro M.
Just my thoughts. Take them or leave them.
Thanks for your support and keep busy this week!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy