I'm so sorry you are dealing with this difficult issue. I strongly suggest you speak with a Divorce Busting Coach before presenting those texts to the OM. Your DB Coach will help you decide what actions are best for accomplishing your goals and getting your marriage on track -- and will help you figure out if you are doing any things that may actually be getting in the way of saving your marriage. You can speak with a DB Coach today. Give me a call at 303-444-7004.