Kenva, yes I did confront her on her EA. I also did some non DBing stuff and exposed the EA to OM w. Seem like they stopped communicating since Monday, and it's probably got something to do with my exposure of the EA. I think that's where the pissed off attitude towards me is coming from lately. But I remained dark and detached.

That's why I'm curious what Sandi2's thoughts would be. Now that OM is hopefully out of the picture how can I be there for w so she won't feel lonely? And at the same time not pursue and appear clingy. What should I not do while my W fight off the temptation to seek OM again?

Bump for sandi2

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.