How do I proceed? Just back from Retrouvaille.

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there is still a lot to uncover with the post sessions of RV. my H and i went last year. we went to the weekend and did all the follow up sessions. did most of the daily dialogue..

i think the problem for us was that i was going through the process with a focus on us.. H was going through the process with his mind already made up that things were over and we were doing RV to better communicate for the kids.

i've only been able to read snippets of your postings but a lot of it sounds similar to H and i around RV time. i'm keeping you in my thoughts for a better outcome because i do think the RV experience is pretty amazing.