"Talking yesterday with H I mentioned that my love was unconditional (this is before break up btw) . That meant it was given freely with no expectation of anything in return; a gift so to speak. And that it meant letting people you love walk their own paths."
LOVE THIS! In saying this to H you have really let go and let him go...to make his choices, walk his path, and you walk yours. Maybe they will merge, maybe they won't, only time will tell.
But, I have been in awe of the path (higher ground) you have chosen along your journey. You have kept the door wide open for your H and he sees that.
He does have work to do. A long road of work, but you have been there for him regardless of the bumpy road he has traveled.
Good for you, ruby!! No expectations, of course!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
