T, he does always say that. Not sure what reaction he wants from me, but, clearly I am not giving the right one as he always makes it a point to say it.
Not sure what it means. Dont really think about it.
If I had to guess, there is a part of him that would be open to seeing what would happen between us.
He knows he screwed up. He also knows that there is truth to the statement. I was the best thing that ever happened to him and there is only one me.
But what he doesnt get is, he could say it all day long. It doesnt negate the fact that he continues to ruin me financially.
So to me, it is just lip service.
But I will say, it is sad to see him as he is now. He is a shell of a man. Driving around in a bmw convertible when the person you spent more than half your life with is struggling so will do that to you.
As far as his relationship with our son - I think it is somewhat normal considering that he is not. LOL!
They talk and text a lot. They get together and spend time together. My son was upset about the bmw. And I think he sees that his father has issues. And my son has lost a lot of respect for him. Not from anything I have ever said or did. He saw things on his own. And he does sometimes tell me that his dad says some things that dont make sense. I just listen.
And though they are close, their relationship is nowhere near what it once was. And I am not sure it ever will be.
Glad I can entertain you. Just dont hurt yourself when you reread it.
