As for how things are going now - he goes from wanting to buy a place together to not being sure if he can trust me - in the same day! So I'm trying to give him space to figure it out. I am supportive of the moving in together, but want him to do it for the right reasons...
We went to visit a home last weekend and we drove around looking at others, it was a lot of fun. I think there is progress...I feel that he's starting to have feelings again - but if so, he doesn't share them with me.