Divorce is just a piece of paper.

Actually IMHO you get to choose when it is the end.

I understand that you have not gotten that choice yet but I believe eventually you will get the choice.

Move forward with your life and live it to the fullest.

Dont waste anytime looking back other than to look at yourself and to FIX those things that make you an awesome person.

Continue to stay as dark as possible and let her control the contact.

You may go throught the stages of grief again and that is perfectly normal.

Knowledge is Power

Me-70, D37,S36