MLC by MIL death/daughter car accident/new job

[Live4myDay]

Thank you. Even though I haven't really gotten any feedback, this site has really given me a lot of strength to follow my heart and intuition and the confidence to live my life right now without him. I even am considering changing back to my maiden name. That'll really throw him off! LOL.

But seriously...I'm GAL and even though I'm not sure if he's a WAS or MLC, I am realizing the cycle of our marriage. I also have recognized I'm the one who started the MLC when he finally got the new job. It was the car accident my daughter survived that woke me up!! It really made see what was in front of me. He's the one who not even realizing it by investing his time and efforts into OW whether it be EA or PA made it a DB/DR situation and I wanted my family my husband back.

But he was gone :-( So I still need advice on how to make him fall in love with me again... Patience I know.