It's not really a talk to change anything unless he says No Way Am I Paying For That.

It's a talk to include him in the process.

How can he improve his parenting interactions if he's not included?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss