Did she begin her "wild streak" before of after you messed up with the secretary?
BTW, I hope you learned a valuable lesson. And, if you have any.....what I call flirty humorous ways(where you think you're being kinda of funny with the OP but you come off as flirty, then you need to end it now, or it will end your M.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!