Usually when the LBH discovers the A, the WAW will go deeper under cover so that he won't find out again.
If it was never resolved, then the problem was never dealt with, right? Even if she regretted it, the problem that led her into an A with OM still existed.
If you have never read up on PEAS, look it up. A's are addictive!
She has OM in her head!
This and other things that have been said above is why there is no possible way I could work on reconciliation with my W unless there was full transparency. I couldn't trust her otherwise
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it