[in_it]

Ok, guys…pep talk time. Something is definitely up with H. He has shut himself in our bedroom with the door closed & is frantically texting. He has done this two other times & both of them were the two times they nearly eneded their relationship.

I'm watching tv & trying to keep my mind off of it. Obviously it's not easy. As much as I want to ask him of everything is ok, I won't. I'll let this unfold. I may never learn what is going on. Right now I'm using it to fuel my PMA & praying that their relationship is crumbling.

Thanks for listening. Since this is my place to vent, I'm sure you'll be hearing the rest of the story when there is one!

Also, I think it's about time to a new thread…how do I link this one?

[uRworthy]

In, let it play out. Do not say a word. Continue on your path.

I never did learn how to link a thread and I've been around for 5 years.

[azguy]

I like the friendly neighbor analogy urWorthy mentions. Sets the right boundaries that you want to have. If you're neighbor asked you what was overly intrusive because you're a bit distant one day, you'd probably just shrug it off, and say "nothing". If you're neighbor's clearly having a personal problem, you'd probably not intrude, but be available for them. It's a pretty good template for DB.

[azguy]

Mangled my second sentence. In any case, I was just practicing applying the analogy. You can try it out for yourself.

[in_it]

Well, I think we are becoming great neighbors!

Once H was finished up doing whatever it was he was doing he joined me in the living room for the news & some baseball. I held my own & did not ask or mention his awkward behavior. He knows I see how he is acting & I'm just going to leave it at that.

Today is a new day & I can't wait to see what it brings. I'm going to keep my PMA & see what this evening has to offer. If he goes for round two with the texting, so be it. I'll use it as more problems in paradise. Ha!

[RealityTrip]

Just checking in to see how you are doing today? ((((InIt)))) Good job on the self control whle he was mad-texting the other night.

Hang in there!!

[uRworthy]

Good on you, In it.

You are doing great.