At that point I went to just go say goodnight and before I could even take a step, she just blurts out, "Don't!"
It really just seemed out of left field and I'm still frustrated about it.
Sorry, but I wouldn't take this very lightly, b/c it takes one to know, KWIM? I would take it as fair warning (or as fair as you'll get). She doesn't want you near her. Don't try, don't talk about it or even get close to doing it. She wants no part of it. Can I tell all of that in that one word? You betcha!
Look, you smother her, plain & simple. The first thing you have to do is back away and leave her alone.
You said you found out about recent contact she's had with OM and you confronted her about it. I would not be surprised to know that she never ended the A emotionally. She's addicted. That's why it picked back up (if it ever ended). Usually when the LBH
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
