Any advice on how I should proceed as we participate in Retrouvaille while he stills plans to move out? Has anyone has success with it?
It's very important to continue the daily dialogue sessions, are you doing that? Also you don't have any control over this, but it is helpful if the hosting couples in the followup sessions are good at what they do. Unfortunately our followup sessions couple were timid and spoke in nearly impossible-to-understand accents. We went to two followup weekends and that was the end of that, the nightly dialoging ended around the same time and now W is ready to proceed with D. That said, I still think RetroV was valuable, it just didn't save our M. RetroV places a lot of emphasis on M being holy and God's will, but that doesn't resonate with my W at all (even though she's Catholic).
