That was via text, right? Next time you see her you might ask her about it. Say something like "I'm interested in hearing your thoughts on the future, texting is so impersonal so I thought it would be better to talk about it in person." If she says she doesn't want to talk about it then just say you understand and if she changes her mind to let you know.
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I listened to the 5LL so many times but that was 8-9 months ago. I will add it back on my audiobook list. I find that I only take in some of the advice I get via self help books etc.
Me too, I have to keep reading them to keep the info fresh! I read a little of DR almost daily.
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I think dim contact and letting her know that I may not being moving to her town has done the sitch some good. I feel like I need to be contacting her now but I know I shouldn't. I feel like I'm ignoring her right now by not reaching out to her.
Your sitch has been going on quite a while. Depending on how long you've been dim, maybe it wouldn't hurt to start reaching out to her again. I went dim with my W many months ago and last week she said she's ready to proceed with D. I used that as my queue to start reaching out to her again. So far she's responded quite favorably. So you might give it a try and see how it goes.
