Do laundry Make fun of ho bag Do dishes Ignore alien H Vacuum Be glad I'm not either one of them
I mean seriously!!!!
Snodderly, I guess if I am truthful with myself, I question H's love for me.
I can see their R for the shallow band- aid that it is, but for now, it's certainly more of a R than I have with my H.
I can also see how easy it would be for the MLCer to avoid feeling the embarrassment and shame connected to the A by keeping it going. They could just keep telling themselves "Look at the great person I've found!" even when they know it's not true.
I do love the story about you confronting the OW at her work - talk about a reality check for her!!!
I heard recently that another employee asked my friend why OW was always around my H, and how did I feel about that? Hmmm...
CB- feeling stressed is normal for this abnormal situation. Some days I am better at detaching than others, but it does get better with time.
Keep up your sense of humor, it really does carry us through!
Hey, bring beer, cheese, and whatever else to the parade - the more the merrier!
Hang in there
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."