Take the hits and keep moving forward.

[T1000]

Thanks for the input AS

I was trying to keep it light hearted and joking about the horny part. You are right it was inappropriate and obviously wasn't funny. I think I used it as a way to lighten up the conversation because it was going somewhere unexpected and I wasn't ready.
It totally caught me off guard what she said and the only thoughts running through my head was be pleasant and don't whatever I do profess my love to her.

Do I wait for her to bring it up again?

I listened to the 5LL so many times but that was 8-9 months ago. I will add it back on my audiobook list. I find that I only take in some of the advice I get via self help books etc.

I think dim contact and letting her know that I may not being moving to her town has done the sitch some good. I feel like I need to be contacting her now but I know I shouldn't. I feel like I'm ignoring her right now by not reaching out to her.
I'm sat here at home feeling like I'm ignoring her and she is sat at home wondering why I'm not messaging her.
I know if I do she might think she just has to click her fingers.

Patience and Time, Patience and Time, Patience and Time