ChrisN,
You are going to have to make the decision in the end. We can't make it for you and neither can your therapist. Im not your therapist so I dont know what has been said from your side, but I wouldn't be surprised if she said it wasnt a good idea because she feels that you can not handle it right now. If that is the case then that is for you to decide. I personally think that if you can handle it, then it is the best thing possible to let her get it out


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it