Originally Posted By: azguy
I guess I'm in a holding pattern because I'm still choosing to wait.


You can choose to give your XW more time and space, and that might mean that your "dating life" is in a holding pattern, but it doesn't mean that YOU are in a holding pattern. That's what I was trying to get at. Stay active in your GAL efforts. Keep meeting new people and engaging in new activities. Become the best "you" that you can be. Keep out of the dating scene if that's your choice (you'll know when you're ready for that), but be an active participant in life in all other ways smile


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57