How does anyone survive this? I don't know if I can.
I remember when I was at that stage and there was nothing anyone could say that seemed to help. All I can tell you is that I have had those thoughts too, I have felt that pain too, and here I am some months after that stage feeling better and more confident than ever and more inspired to live a great life. And this in spite of the fact that my W is pushing forward with divorce. I am no longer dependending on my wife (or anyone else) to lead a fulfilling life. DB'ing is as much about saving yourself as your marriage. You can do this!
