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NLW - Good for your D! Even before finishing reading that, I thought - oh no... he wants to take their money!

About the L thing - it doesn't surprise me at all. NLW, if you think about it, he has taken money from you, your family, his own kids, from OW. He has refused to provide his financials from day one and now his L is gone... Don't you think this is the behavior of a man who definitely has something to hide?

Please don't forget all his actions to date. I hate to sound like a broken record, but make sure you are protected and foreseeing anything he could try. I don't know what else he could do financially to hurt you at this point, since he is not paying his share of support expenses, but I fear that he would if he could...

The one thing I am still confused about is you keep saying you cannot do anything about the situation and today you said you are at a stand-off. I would assume a judge will force him to provide financials and then force him to pay his share of child support, right? Does he have a job? Couldn't they take the money out directly from his salary? Your L has probably gone through all the scenarios with you, by now.

NLW, I really hope there is something you and your L can do to move things forward - you and your kids have been dealing with your H's abuse for way too long. I cannot imagine how you guys must be feeling, living and walking on eggshells on a daily basis.


Hang in there!

((((NLW))))