Sizing up the task ahead!

[mrtwopointfour]

2.4, I don't have any wisdom other than I really admire how you have approached this and you are human my brother, you will make mistakes. You have been super-helpful to me and it looks like you are handling things well.

My only advice is that I went to a counselor first by myself and thought it was very helpful. Then W went by herself and said the same. Whether your W does or does not go, I would suggest you consider going.

CB

Thanks CB - But not sure my approach is one to be admired yet. I am lost a little in my own sitch at the moment, and feel like I talk a good DB game on paper, but have trouble making it work in real life, and also still not sure I understand what my goals, changes, 180 etc should really be and whether they are the right ones. I also believe I know what i did wrong in my M, but often think I am missing one important thing that my W is waiting for me to suddenly realise and apologise for - I know this is wishful and pointless thinking, but just being honest!