"Are you doing the things you should be to be a spiritual leader in your house?"

Not where I want to be yet. I have really worked on my relationship with Christ over the past 4 or 5 months. I had a very bad example as a father where I learned verbal abuse among other bad traits growing up. Therefore I have begun to try and live like my Father above would want me to, although I have definitely slipped along the way.
Me being a spiritual leader would mean me leading by example to my son and W. By showing her love, kindness, sacrafice and selflessness.

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it