The turn of events is indeed amazing. I am glad you are staying grounded, althought I cannot imagine how hard it must be. Expectations have a way of sneaking in when we least expect them...
You are right, your path has not changed. You will continue living and being the fabulous you that you have re-discovered. As for your H, it sounds he still has a lot to sort out and work on himself. Time is on your side - use it wisely and things will fall in place as they need to - in time...
((((((Ruby)))))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D