Could you talk to D about it? Do you think H should at least be given an opportunity to be involved? He may not act interested but is this his normal level of interaction? We're all different and it's certainly taken me a long time to see that my H was doing loving things they just weren't in my love language.

We don't always like what our loved ones do but we still love them. I know your D has been hurt by H's actions but she still loves him.

Is D learning to be like you? Please don't take that as a cut, just something to think about.

This could be a growth step for all of you.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss