2.4, I don't have any wisdom other than I really admire how you have approached this and you are human my brother, you will make mistakes. You have been super-helpful to me and it looks like you are handling things well.

My only advice is that I went to a counselor first by myself and thought it was very helpful. Then W went by herself and said the same. Whether your W does or does not go, I would suggest you consider going.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"