Sizing up the task ahead!

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Thanks Snodderly, I will take all that on board as its something i need to keep reminding myself. As you can see from my first post of the day I am feeling a little lost at the moment. Especially on days like today, when I have conversations with my W and its like we are still in a happy M, and getting on with life as a loving couple!

One more thing to add to the above, in regards to pickyness etc.

My W always points something out even its if its more effort to point it out than doing the job would be. For instance, 'you forgot to put the coffee back in the fridge!' mainly said in a tone of voice that is a little irritated by this, and a hint towards you are useless. However, if my W had forgotten to put the coffee away, I would just put it away and be done with it.

Would a 180 be for me to start letting her know of these things, so she does not think she is 100% perfect, and I am the one that makes human errors. Or, do i assume that two wrongs don't make a right?