Thank you for your thoughts, I am trying to follow the manual but looking for ways that I might need to tweak the manual for my sitch.
BTW, thank you for saying I seem like a nice person. I haven't had a lot of compliments lately and seeing that was really nice. Especially at a time I was feeling pretty down on myself yesterday.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"