I have been. W has become obsessed with fitness (working out and what we eat) and I have chosen to go along for the ride enthusiastically. My "playing weight" for the past 10 years or so has been +/- 5 lbs of 210. By December (precisely at the wrong time) I was up to 229. This morning after my workout, I weighed in at 206! Not only losing weight through the "W is in MLC and my marriage might end - I can't eat" diet, but getting in WAY better shape.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"