Then you have 8 other threads(on other forums) that I will ignore and hope you stick to this one.
So back to the LRT question, you will do it for as long as it takes. You will stop making small talk and pursuing tactics. They are only succeeding in driving her away.
The objective is for you to get her to pursue YOU.
Not more of the same with you clinging on to her.
Hope that helps.
Please stick with this thread until you get to 100 posts.