Ok hopefully Sandi2 will see this. Sandi2 saw your posts yesterday thank you for that.

Seems to me the last interaction with OM was Monday. From my calculation the communication only lasted for 7mins. I can't confront her on this because I don't have a direct evidence. But W has been very sad the last couple of days. Maybe they had a fight? Or maybe OM W confronted OM, there could be number of things.

@Sandi2- If I recall correctly when you decided to fight the temptation to see OM, how did you want your husband to interact with you during those withdrawal stage? Did you want your husband to pursue you? Not sure if I should pursue her a little. I don't wanna mess this up but if she has decided to cut contact, because of my exposure, then she must've really hate me right now. Do I just let time heal her and hope if she comes around?

Anyway, I'm just looking for your perspective of a WAW,to see if there's anything I can do to help her during this period.

Thanks,
Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.