T, He must have read the "script" of the great love affair of the last 30 years...Charles and Camilla. LOL! Geesh, talk about childish! The notes the two teens write to each are very childish, but yet, enlightening as to where they are in their past lives.
Of course, you are the mature adult and yes, your love for your h runs far deeper than that of the ow. They will outgrow each other in time.
My xh's wife (then ow) when asked by me as to what she saw in him, her comment was "he's a nice man". My comment was "nice people don't do sh@tty things to others. Of course, I got a standing ovation from the patients in the cardiac unit of the hospital when I confronted her and told her about herself and him. LOL!
You'll get the change one day to ask him about each one, but the question will be...will he be able to remember what she wrote to him and why.
Enjoy your day!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
