I'm not against sending these types of things if it makes YOU feel better. Just don't have any expectations that it will be the light bulb moment from her you're hoping for.
Originally Posted By: Intact
...but at the moment I fail to see how it could make things worse.
Is that the right attitude?
Isn't the question will this bring me closer to my goal or further away from it?
This is a very good point - truth be told I don't know what it will do the sitch - I don't think it will change it much but I do believe she needs to hear that I'm still willing to fight for our marriage. I think at the moment she is so into OM very little will do any harm or any good but surely at some point in the future I need to look our son in the eyes and honestly tell him I tried everything.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013
