I am frustrated at the lack of forward movement. We are stuck in a stand-off.
I did get some news today that surprised me - and made me feel like I was a in a stronger position.
My L told me that STBX's L said she is no longer representing him, and that future correspondence should go directly to STBX.
And we've only just started the court process.
Wow! It'd take a brave man to run his own case through the financial and legal minefield that our sitch is going to throw up.
Maybe he has flipped out.
He saw D17 briefly yesterday and gave her $100 and same for S14. Totally useless in terms of CS of course, as i can't ask them for the money to buy food or pay their bills, but anyway....
He then asked her for her bank account details so he could "continue to pay money to her and her brother".
Her reply: "Sorry, but you took all the money from our accounts a while ago and you never paid it back. I'm not going to tell you."