The long and winding road

[Takevowsserious]

You crack me up UW! Making clothes for the cell phone, writing poems that mock their teenage thinking, keeping the humor alive through all your H's instantly - love it.

You are right Caigy, I often wonder what happened to my H's brain (he was always a pretty smart guy) and then I'm reminded that it turned to jello! Or scrambled eggs.

Let me explain my experience in finding OW's love note to my H.

This was about two months after bomb. I knew, just knew there was something going on. I wanted proof. Sound familiar everyone???

So I snooped, and found a picture of the two of them. It wasn't x rated or anything, just the two of them cheek to cheek at a park somewhere.

It made me go through the f-ing roof.

With the picture was a typed, unsigned love note.

That also made me go through the f-ing roof.

Now, my H's birthday was about a week away. I had been working on a note to put in his card with reasons why I love him.

I know, I know, I can hear all the gasps and groans now. This was still very early on, I hadn't yet found the DB path. TVS was still waiting to be born

Anyway...

Here's a brief comparison of the two notes...

OW's list on why she loves him: I love that you dress for me, I love that you do push-ups for me, I love that you're jealous for me, I love that you want me all to yourself, I love that you told me you like movies - maybe we can go see one together one day. (There was more, I'm not going to bother, you get the picture)

My list on why I love H: that he is good to our parents, that he was a great father who even gave baths and changed diapers, that he shared my sorrow when our baby died, that he shared my joy when our boys were born. (Again, there was more, but you get the picture)

Now which one of those notes seems like it was written by an adult? I think we all know the answer to that one!

Someday, I hope to get the chance to ask him about each one. We will see.