Struggling and need help #2

[CharlieBrown]

Thanks guys. Weird night last night. She was distant and cold to me for the first hour after I got home and through dinner. She didn't touch her wine, even though it is her favorite, and was distant after dinner. After I put the kids to bed, she took a shower. I asked her if she was going to have her wine and she said yes, she was feeling better now, her stomach had caused issues. She came and sat down in our family room and we had a good talk and she even had a second glass. We were talking about looking forward to therapy and she said "this has been a good week, it feels like old times." That, of course, almost brought me to tears but I didn't show it, I just asked her to tell me more, and she did.

We both went to bed at the same time and she ended up plugging her phone in our office (which is a location that I could snoop if I wanted to and she had been plugging it in on her nightstand). So, now I don't know what is up but I will find out today at therapy.

THANK YOU KD and T for your advice on how to respond, I agree that is a sound approach.