What a beautiful way with words you have Anotherstander. I tried putting words together a couple of week ago stating my intentions and it was ignored. But I will wait another 2 months and try again with similar words to what you wrote. I also believe it is not going to make anything worse that what it is. Sometimes though I really think the WAS needs to hear you still care and love them. That is in some sitch's not all.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.