Well, I've written the email and as stated I'm going to sit on it for a week and really think about sending it.

I've tried not to be needy or add any pressure as well as make sure that its obvious I'm not going to wait around forever...

Really not sure at this point if I will send it or not, but I at he moment I fail to see how it could make things worse.

W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013