Bring It On 2013

[BeingMe]

BH, of course I don't want a divorce (well, I do, and I don't for various reasons). Who does? It's so easy to not go down that road while H is being nice, which he always is. He just isn't emotionally 'there' and doesn't want a 'real' marriage. I must, as you say, have to live with things as they are. Sometimes, I find it easy, but other times, it's hard when one wants the support of the man you've been married to for so long. Also, if he had been mean, horrible, and spending all our money on junk or OW, it definitely would've been an easy choice to make. He didn't and this is why I'm still here.

Sometimes, I wish he had been cruel, but when I read about the experiences of those whose H/W were so, it caused so much pain and sorrow, that I'm glad he didn't go that route.

Thanks for your input. You're always so levelheaded.