Losing Hope w/WAH

[azguy]

Good to hear! Being friendly, without being pursuing sounds like a reasonable 180. It will also need to be consistent for your H to begin to believe it, not just an action or two. In fact, you can probably expect he will challenge you or be dismissive of this behavior as you try it out. You might imagine such a scenario and envision how you'd like to react in that situation.

And I'm happy to hear your C has DB training. Whatever he/she advises will probably be more informed than you can get from here. Keep it up!