Any hope???

[Emilys88]

well like i mentioned above he said no to me moving home. I asked what would he do if i just stayed in our home? He would get a barracks room to get away from me.

I told him i wont stay without his blessing, and left it at that. The reason he even thought about it was he felt guilty. He just said he didnt miss me and doesnt want to bother with it.

I finally reached my level of dettachment, i love him but im tired of the verbal and mental abuse, and the EA. He hasnt taken accounitabiliy for anything he has done. all because i didnt kiss him back and not enough sex during my fight with depression. ohand how i used the wrong term of S.

I still want my marriage but im starting to get mad that he was making every bad thing my fault, and too chicken to tell me to my face he just wanted out to be single.