You're a good man BD. We are down the same path. We have been used and abused. Lets move on as best we can. At least you have an agreement. Hope it is something you are comfortable with and equitable. Stay up pal. You will be good.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.