Thanks, Tori- good to know the WAS's use the same script. I'm anxious to find out how you are doing too!
PoN,thanks for your approval of my handling of today's interactions w H. You are right that I need to continue to detach. I am a very emotional person & I have had my moments of weakness w my H when these big R talks (initiated by him) have happened.
I agree that I will sit back & let H do the work if he intends to. Maybe he will do more thinking now that he's put the big "D" out there & not file right away.
I swear "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger..." (Kelly Clarkson). I certainly hope so!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.